The Bob Marley Secret To Enhance Your Social Life [420 Edition]

What is up you fine smelling gent?!

The Swagger Social Tribe has been buzzing like crazy for the past few days.

But before I get to that, I’ve got a question for you…

Are you getting your dose of green this 4/20??? šŸ˜Ž

Cause I’ve been on that green since about midnight last night…


[Post workout greens in honor of 420… btw, follow me on SnapChat: therealpatrickj]

Yea I know. I know.

I kinda mislead you there.

The truth is I stay far away from that marijuana stuff.


It’s nothing personal against Mary Jane… She’s just not my type. It’s too bad though, we could have really done some damage. šŸ˜Ž

Ok. Ok. I’m done gaming mary jane…

The real reason I stay away from the stuff is because when I’ve done it in the past, I noticed that I get super in my head, and paranoid that others are judging me negatively.

Yea for whatever reason smoking makes me highly insecure in the moment, it’s weird.

And for THAT reason I stay the f*ck away from it.

Obviously I don’t have to tell your well-endowed self why being all in your head is a bad thing.

Speaking of things that make you feel some type of way…

Let’s talk about stuff that makes us feel flipping amazing, shall we?

Stuff that makes me feel amazing:





-Green juice


-Playfully disqualifying girls away from me… cuz you know… We could NEVER be together.

-Kicking it with a few of my closest homies

-The smell of coffee and bacon in the morning

-Writing self-entertaining emails to my tribe

-A kickass workout at the gym

-Getting dressed in my v-neck, bracelets, and badass shoes before I go out [it’s like putting on my jersey before the game]

Now let me ask you… What makes you feel good?

Jim Rohn used to always say “Where your focus goes your energy flows.”

So I’m gonna challenge you today to focus on the things that MAXIMIZE your happiness, and let the rest fall by the wayside.

Look, I’m not sure how your April has been going…

With that said, let’s choose to be POSITIVELY optimistic about everything.

That’s called choosing to be in a great mood.

And I’ll tell you what… when you do that, you won’t need Mary Jane to make you feel good because your positive energy will propel you to greatness.


Emotions are contagious and people are always magnetically attracted to positive energy.

Imagine it… When your mind is a fortress of positivity, then people leave you going “Daaaang, who was that guy?!… I felt better, and more energized just by being around him!”

Control your environment like a dictator.

For the last few years, I’ve made the conscious effort to only hang out with people who have qualities that I want in myself.

Successful people.

Ambitious people.

People who refuse to be held down by the ankle chains of average.

Fit people.

People who love tequila.

People who support me and my mission.

Go getters.

Movers and shakers.

People who constantly invest in themselves.

….Lol, yea that’s about it. It’s not hard to be in my inner circle…

You’ve just got to WANT it bad enough.

Speaking of controlling your environment like a dictator…

The Swagger Social Tribe has been BUZZING.

=====Patter Interrupt: Patrick’s Social Tip of The Day=====

When you go out, figure out what your “triggers” are.

Frank Sinatra was notorious for being a heavy drinker and partier.. However when he would be preparing for recording an album, or some big event like that, he would cut himself off from the liquor.

That said, he realized that holding a cup in his hand was a trigger for him. Just the fact that he was holding a cup, regardless of whether it had alcohol in it, was a trigger for him to feel great and perform great.

So figure out what your trigger is, and then use it when you go out.

For example, is it a lucky shirt?

Is it a hat you wear?

I’ll tell you what, for the longest time, mine was chewing on a piece of gum. I trained myself to make this my trigger by ONLY chewing gum when I went out to party. And eventually whenever I’d slip a piece of gum in my mouth in the middle of the day, it would give me the same feel-good emotions that I’d get when I went out to party.

This is a nice little social hack for you to consider today.

Disclaimer: I don’t recommend relying on alcohol, marijuana, or anything that will make your health decline as a trigger… Although, yes, they do work.

=====Take Action Now. Back To Your Regular Programming…=====

The rumors are true…

Yes, Patrick James is going to Miami in May.

Yes, he’s inviting members of his tribe to hang out with/learn from him in-person on the beaches, and nightlife of Miami.

Yes, these guys are gonna get personalized, and actionable advice tailor just to them on how they can get instant unstoppable Charisma, and Attraction powers.

And Yes, he’s very selective about who he’s letting join him for this weekend of immersion.

Join me in Miami.

So here’s the deal:

In about 1 month, I am holding a Charisma Immersion Weekend in Miami, FL.

Starting on the evening of Friday May 13th, and going through to the end of Saturday May 14th, you and me will get the chance to work together.

Mano y mano.

You know my mission.

I’m here to empower 100,000 ambitious men with the Charisma, Confidence, and Courage to go after what they truly want in life. Whether it’s higher quality women, once-in-a-lifetime business opportunities, or mastery over yourself… I give you the tools to do so.

And that’s why I’ve finally given in to popular demand, and decided to put on this weekend Immersion program.

I’ve never done this before, and likely won’t be doing it again in the near future.

The Point Of This Immersion
Experience For You:

“Immersion Weekend” is just a fancy way of saying that I’m gonna be hanging out with a select group of guys on the beach, taking them out for VIP service in the clubs, and coaching them step by step on how to become the most Charismatic and Attractive version of themselves.

A few spots have already been taken up and we only have 5 spots left.

This is the real thing, and an experience that cannot be replicated with a youtube vid, or an email.

Environmental exposure like this is how you cram 2 years of learning into just 2 days.

You know my mission, and that’s exactly why I’m doing this.

If you’re seeing this invite it’s because I’ve deemed you as the kind of guy who takes MASSIVE action.

If you want to grab one of the 5 spots right now before we actually open it up in a few weeks, email us back now and let us know you want in. [send your email to]

The ONE-Question Test

We’ll reply with a ONE QUESTION TEST, and if you pass, I’ll get you registration details, you’ll sign up and claim one of the 5 spots, and then you’ll start planning your trip to see me in Miami, May 13 and 14 šŸ™‚

[Like I said, I’ve never done this before but I’m pretty sure we’ll sell out fast, because there’s just so many ambitious badasses on the Social Swagger Tribe, tons of whom are already out there killing it in their own social lives, and have been asking for this obviously badass opportunity for a LONG time. But who knows. Maybe the dates won’t work and there will still be spots left for you when we open up. I’d just take it now though.]

Talk soon.