WHAT to do when you DON’T feel like doing ANYthing…

 

Have you ever gotten this feeling?…

I’ll tell you what, it doesn’t matter how old I get, or how many experiences I accumulate… I still get this feeling too.

If you don’t know what I’m referring to, it’s this feeling of when you know you should be doing one thing [i.e. building something for your business] yet a distractor keeps grabbing your attention [i.e. that facebook tab].

An example that a lot of you may personally relate to is what happens when you sit down to read a book…

Have you ever gone an extended period of time without picking up and single book?.. And then the one time you actually do WHIP out a phat, new read, you get overcome with tiredness, and think that you need a power nap?

Yup that happens to me too.

Here’s an more common example from your social life:

You’re out at a bar, and you are with your friends, when all of the sudden a stunner walks in..

It’s not just any stunner but it’s probably the most beautiful girl in the entire city.

Now at this point you have two choices..

A. You could stand there, mentally masturbating at the idea of walking over there like a man and picking her up.

All the while, not moving your feet and standing there talking about something completely mundane with your buddy.

OR…

B. Without thinking, you set your feet into action, and start walking over there. You have no clue what is going to happen…

And the second your brain realizes that you are actually walking over there, your heart starts to beat out of your chest.

You have no clue what you’re going to say, but it doesn’t matter now because she already see’s you making your way over, and a sly grin is starting to overcome her face. It is at this moment, that you know It Is ON…

Two options, yet two completely different outcomes…

Yet what is that quality that defines those people who choose option B. over option A.

Does that defining factor even exist?

Well here is the good news. It does and I’m going to show it to you right here in this special edition of Social Mastery Daily.

It may not be what you expect, but I assure you it is easier than you think.

All it takes is a little bit of courage, and an open mind.

Here it is:

TAKING THE FIRST STEP.

Notice how the man who chose “option B” had no special qualities about him.. He just took that first step, and went from there.

Now after this first step, many guys will STILL hesitate, and then stop right before walking back to where they came from…

Hoping that nobody saw them take the step in the first place.

[This almost reminds me of those people who completely wipe-out on a bicycle and then get up as if nothing ever happened, in hopes that nobody saw.]

Here’s the thing. I realize that I can sit here ALL day and tell you phrases like “Take Action” and “Tomorrow Never Comes” and “Seize The Day”…

Yet, at some point those just become words… meaningless letters on a page, because they have become so over-used that they are the new equivalent to those Facebook posts with some random motivational quote.

Luckily, I work my A$$ off, and am entirely about delivering results, so I have innovated a solution to motivate MORE people to “Take that FIRST step…and keep walking.

And if you think that you will hear this intel anywhere else.. then you are WRONG my friend.

Much of what I teach comes not only from the experiences that I personally have, but also those of my friends, and clients.

That being said, the inspiration for what I’m about to tell you…

This PRICELESS lesson that is SO valuable…

Actually came from none other than the annoying, yipping dog next door.

That’s right, I learned this technique of “Taking MORE Action” from a dog!

Which is also why I call this “Barking The BULLSH*T Away

And when I tell you to “BARK that Bullshit away” I certainly don’t mean yip like that shit-fuck next door. I mean BARK Like a fucking Pit Bull!

Anytime you don’t feel like doing something that you know you should be doing…

Or anytime you feel a distraction wrongly averting your attention away from what you’re currently doing…

Or EVEN when you see an opportunity arise, but some piece of you feels the fear, which makes you hesitate in moving closer to YOUR passions..

Hesitation is VOLUNTARILY losing.

Here’s what I want you to do:

1. Realize that YOU are not the piece of you that is feeling fear. YOU are not the piece of you that doesn’t want to take the right action. YOU are not the entity that keeps getting distracted.

The real enemy here is the EGO.

Notice how I didn’t say “Your Ego”.. Because YOU are not your ego.

This is one of the many great lessons I have learned from Eckhart Tolle in his book The Power Of Now.

The reason you get distracted, or don’t feel like taking proper action, is because your EGO is trying to protect itself from getting hurt.

The second you realize that You and Your Ego are not mutually exclusive, you are free from it’s influence.

Once you come to realize this move on to the next step:

2. Detach your ego, and imagine yourself throwing it out right in front of you, so that you can Stare him RIGHT in the fucking EYE and do the final step:

3. BARK away the BULLSH!T.

Literally YELL at your imaginary ego and say “NO! You will NOT control me.”

And then get back to DOMINATING the day because YOU are the FUCKING shit.

In short, Feel the fear, and Do it anyways.

When you see that cute girl, and that fear starts to arise – BARK away the BULLSH!T

When you realize that you should be doing something that is vitally important to your success, and that feeling of “I don’t feel like it” comes up – BARK away the BULLSH!T

When you are working on Project X, and that Facebook tab is attempting to seduce you into it – BARK away the BULLSH!T

Go through this process on a regular basis, and pretty soon, YOU will become unstoppable.

Till next time,

-Patrick

B.T.Dubs.. What is holding you back in your life right now?

Are you completely satisfied in ALL areas… Health? Wealth? Social Fulfillment?

Are you 100% good-to-go for the rest of your days?

If you are being true to yourself, and barking away the bullshit as we speak, then you and I both know that you could be greater.

I can see it from here, all that untapped potential just radiating off of you. It’s glistening, and just begging to be unleashed.

The truth of the matter is, when most people realize that they could be doing better, they tend to look for outside sources to blame their current downfalls on.

They try to find a scapegoat, so that they can take the blame away from themselves.

However, here is what you MUST realize. The only reason you look for a scapegoat is because your EGO is trying to protect itself once again.

BARK away the BULLSH!T, dude!

If you are not 100% killing it in EVERY aspect of life, then it is time to reflect inward…

I do this EVERY day, as I raise my own personal value, so that I can continue to deliver massive amounts of value to the world.

And here is the Unequivocal Truth: Success in each area of your life is completely based on 2 things… Who you are, and How others perceive you.

Jim Rohn always said, “Success is not something you pursue, it is something you ATTRACT by the person you become”

To magnetically attract success in all areas of life, you must develop a personally that is magnetically attractive to the core.

And in the article below, I have written about my personal journey to developing this Magnetic Personality, as well as 3 Social Hacks that you can use as early as tonight to start yourself on the right path. You won’t want to miss out on this one…