Las Vegas Story.. [NSFW]

 

Hey man, do you realize how great life is?

 

Damn I’m feeling F*cking AMAZING today, and I already know there is going to be a plethora of value delivered in todays newsletter, so let’s begin.

 

Last weekend I went to Las Vegas, and had a freaking blast.

 

The weekend was full of redbull, tequilla, girls, girls, and well.. Not so safe debauchery.

 

Have you ever had one of those nights [or even days] where everything seems to go right for you?..

 

Like the words just come naturally. You feel super charismatic. And everybody seems to be magnetically drawn towards your positive energy?

 

[BTW things like this happen all the time with a Magnetic Personality]

 

Well that was me ALL of last weekend.

 

After the weekend I was trying to reverse engineer the EXACT reason I was able to have not only 1 night, but 2 and a half entire days like this…

 

How did a kid who used to be socially awkward, was never able to ace a job interview, and had his first “real” relationship when he was 21 go on to be like this?..

 

With much thought and consideration, it hit me like a ton of bricks…

 

The true reason I was able to have such a great time, with the sort of positive energy, that draws people in like an atom bomb of attraction and charisma was because:

 

I was constantly BOOSTING my own state.

 

That was it.

 

What is your “State” you may ask?

 

By “State” I don’t mean the place you live, I mean the mood you are in.

 

For example, when you are winding down for the night and are about to go to bed, your state is “tired,” and “calm.”

 

Instead of dancing to music right before bed, you would probably much rather consume mediocre television [or if you’re truly living the Social Highlife, reading an inspiring biography of a courageous person].

 

In that case, you would be at a Low Energy vibration..

 

However, when you are boosting your own state, you go from Low Energy –> High Energy/Positive as f*ck/Radiating Charisma like flipping a switch.

 

So my revelation was that I am unknowingly boosting my own state ALL day long.. and it’s effects on my Charismatic energy when I go out are priceless.

 

Back To The Story..

 

In Las Vegas the guest list for my room consisted of me, and 3 girls.. Pretty good ratio if you ask me.

 

This means that when preparing to go out, it takes me about 10 minutes to be club-ready, but it takes 3 girls sharing 1 bathroom like 1.5 hours.

 

They have to do their makeup, choose the right dress, match their jewelry to the dress color, pick the perfect pair of shoes… it’s this whole process.

 

Thank God we’re not women.

 

So anyways, our hotel room was very odd because every wall was just a ginormous mirror..

 

And as these girls are getting all pampered up, I’m standing out in the living room listening to music, dancing, admiring myself in the mirror, making delicious drinks [I should seriously be a mixologist or something].

 

As I’m looking in the mirror I’m thinking thoughts like:

 

Damn I look fly right now.”

 

I should dress like this more often.”

 

I’m going to get so much action tonight.”

 

How lucky am I to be in the nightclub mecca known as Las Vegas right now?

 

And as you may already be able to tell, positive thinking + positive questions –> state boost –> positive results.

 

This is No novel concept either..

 

A lot of people unconsciously are controlling their own state..

 

Have you ever listened to really upbeat music while working out?

 

Have you ever been dancing and singing to music right before going out to a
club or a bar?

 

If so, you were bringing yourself up and you didn’t even know it.

 

In my case, last weekend when I was about to go out, I was doing MULTIPLE things to boost my state:

 

1. Listening to music

 

2. Dancing

 

3. Drinking alcohol [now take this with a grain of salt, I don’t drink to ‘get fucked up,’ and I certainly wasn’t intentionally boosting my state with the alcohol.. however it does help.]

 

4. Positive self-talk

 

When I had all these things going for me, they had this synergistic effect for my mood and my state.

 

And just like THAT!… I’m in the zone.

 

[Or as Drake would say 0 –> 100 real quick]

 

Notice I wasn’t letting any negativity enter my headspace.. I wasn’t like:

 

Dang, these girls are taking forever to get ready.”

 

I hope I can get into the club tonight.”

 

Why do drinks in Las Vegas have to be so expensive?”

 

I hope a girl will like me tonight.”

 

Fuck that noise.

 

And to add EVEN more to this synergy of state boosters..

 

As I was on my way to the nightclub we were going to I was joking around with strangers, talking to random hot girls waiting next to me in the taxi line,
high five-ing people on the way in the club, and Charming the socks off of a bachelorette party that was going to the same club as me.

 

Notice, I wasn’t doing anything to leach good emotions, or good vibes off of anybody else..

 

I was shaking off the rust, and getting warmed up for the nightclub by socializing by giving off the good vibes I already had going for me.

 

This is called OFFERING Value.

 

When I do this, it literally puts my state on STEROIDS.

 

It’s almost like Steph curry getting warmed up for an NBA finals game..

 

You have to warm up, or else you run the risk of coming across as “try hard” when you arrive to the venue you’re going to.

 

Surprisingly, a lot of people actually do this..

 

They’ll be watching tv. Sitting down. Super calm..

 

And then they’ll try to just stand up and go to this nightclub that is on such a HIGHER vibration than they are, and the environment overwhelms them.

 

So unlike those people.. when I’m listening to music, dancing, cycling positivity in my thoughts, and talking to a bunch of random strangers while in pursuit to the venue.. I am getting warmed up!

 

By the time I get into the club, and so many other people are just now trying to turn themselves up, I’ve already BEEN turned up for the last hour.

 

Now these state boosters don’t have to only apply to when you are going out to bars or clubs at night.. They work just as well, if not better during the day.

 

Imagine if you were in this GREAT mood all day long…

 

How would this effect your work environment?

 

How would your friends and family start to perceive you?

 

Do you think people would prefer to be around you when you are feeling that great?

 

Of course they would.

 

All in all, this is one of the biggest epiphanies I had recently, and certainly one of the most powerful lessons you will ever learn.

 

Obviously I haven’t given you EVERY strategy to boost your own state in this article.. That is up for YOU to find what works best for yourself.

 

That being said,

 

I’m gonna get out of here man.

 

Big plans for the day.

 

Big plans for the week.

 

GINORMOUS plans for the year.

 

We’re taking this world over ONE step at a time.

 

Talk soon.

 

-Patrick

 

P.S. The ability to control your own state is just ONE of the several aspects to what makes a personality truly Magnetic… More on this soon.